Yours might be different from mine. [ as hers had arisen from emotion. agitation, frustration, stress — she'd been yelling at an alarm clock one moment, and staring at its broken pieces the next. ] But just trial and error, really. Find something to play with, and really concentrate.

[ she doesn't want sansa to get the wrong idea. ]

Don't be discouraged if it doesn't feel easy. It took me a long time to figure out mine, and I know people who are still waiting to figure out theirs. You just have to keep at it.