It's about knowing that you'll stand up for what you've done even when someone new enters the picture and has a problem with it. Even if it isn't pretty, or isn't right in a lot of ways.

[But: it's also about seeing past that. Knowing that what is the harshest decision isn't necessarily always the right decision.]

The harder thing for me is to learn when not to do that. There's more than one way to be recognized.

[That's her entire fight these days: how to do that.]