Destiny doesn't mean much if you don't find peace in it. [That's something that she strongly believes. Destiny, though, is in the eye of the beholder. In this case, Clarke doesn't believe that destiny matters unless someone believes it's who they are—and if it's their guiding purpose. Lexa insisted that she had been born for leadership, but she didn't see it that way. Lexa herself had been under the belief that she was meant to lead others. And, again, Clarke believes that only made sense because Lexa herself was well suited to that life and purpose.]

I'm not asking you to be a sidekick. I'm asking to help you whenever it's time. That's all.